It’s Saturday night and along with the whole spirit of being social and having a killer social life…
… I figured I’d drop a little tip on you that you can put to use tonight.
I mean, what’s the point of having a killer body if you live like a hermit right?
Right.
Now, in yesterday’s podcast, I kinda mentioned this a little while talking to Rich, but one of the BIGGEST mistakes I see people make when they’re trying to meet other people, whether it be women at the bar or networking for work…
… is the fact that you’ve likely already set a serious goal for the interaction in your mind.
Thus, you get nervous about talking to people, and in a lot of cases, you’re so stressed about screwing up that you DON’T EVEN GO TALK TO THEM AT ALL!
I know you know where I’m coming from.
If you’re single, maybe it’s the hot blonde at the bar that you’d love to talk to, but you’re afraid that she’ll turn you down.
If it’s work related, maybe it’s that hot contact that could possibly put your company on the next level.
So here’s the deal.
Let’s put this in terms of if you were going out tonight.
(now I realize that you may already be ‘connected’, but just roll with me here as you’ll see how this can apply to you)
Imagine you walk into a party and you see a woman that catches your eye.
Now, the normal guy would look at this woman and try to think of the best “pick up line” or opener he could in order to possibly pave the way to getting to the “next level” with her.
But not you.
You know why?
Because, you don’t know anything about her… like AT ALL.
And do you know what you do?
You go meet her. Just to meet her.
You go satisfy your curiosity.
You don’t have an agenda, except for the fact that you want to find out a little bit more about the person that’s caught your eye.
And at this point, talking to her is EASY.
Here’s what I want to you try…
… here’s the “technique” if you will.
“Just meet people to meet people.”
No agendas, you’re just meeting cool people.
I think you’ll be really surprised at how easy it gets.
Have an awesome night.
Stay cool,
Brad
p.s. Go check out this cool video that Rich has up. I think you’ll enjoy it.
p.p.s. Yes, that’s me in the pic above. I’m at my buddy’s wedding, jumping over my brother while my sister laughs at us as the crowd goes wild… lol
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